Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Esrom Crossland with the following comment:
Abigail Crossland is my paternal great grandmother.She was a servant at Lotherby Hall and her first son was illegitimate, named John Birch. Arthur Crossland married her and she subsequently went on to have more children, including my Grandfather Clarence. I visited Lotherby Hall a few years ago, but did not really find any information about the staff. Thank you, Sue